My Story, my Books

The bed of the successful courtesan, welcoming womb of joys, emotions, sensations, frustrations and perversions. And again: baseness and lapses in style, miserable cheating, all contrasted with sudden flashes of grandiose belonging to a world in slow decline but still capable of regenerating itself at the source of Love. As in a complicated puzzle, it is Love, spiritually material, sexually physical and cloaked in voluptuous contact, which with its great energy gives sex a vital drive. Bedroom psychologist and artist, non-cynical feminist and indeed - precisely for this reason - hopelessly humanist, BlueAngy is the extraordinary teacher, author and writer who in her first work (the title was eloquent, "How to do good to men" - Einaudi Editore ) paints with strong brushstrokes, the irreversible crisis of male sexual power, highlighting the behavior of "his" men to arrive not at the antagonistic denigration of the millennial supremacist idol, but rather at cultivating that cathartic reflection which - alone - overcomes the fence mentally and emotionally taken for granted, of "men who hate women". Or that sometimes, even unconsciously, they do everything (absolutely everything...) to make women hate them. Escort by her choice of work and pleasure life, but at the same time also a wife and mother who always tries to be responsible, BlueAngy places herself alongside "her" men, describing herself without taboos in the first person. Without veils therefore, retracing through a skilled literary narrative, defeats and victories, burning disappointments and immense joys, in her becoming a woman naturally inclined to love the human race in every sense. The I merges into the Whole. BlueAngy is a woman who embodies "the Woman". Weak and strong at the same time, but always balanced and aware, the Woman that BlueAngy embodies, often knows she is making mistakes, in the awareness that only in this way, by making mistakes, can one arrive at those brilliant intuitions that invariably lead to great moments, to unmissable appointments with Life. Faith in Humanity, hope in a better future and then, energy. That extraordinary strength that generated in her a thought based on philosophical and moral positivism. BlueAngy knows she has a great mission of Love in her life, probably the last among the representatives of Humanistic thought. BlueAngy is the little girl who still marvels with joy at the wonders of Life and Love. A late but therefore even more wonderful approach to that joy that she lived latently due to the fault of her family and society while she was still a child. And so, the escort, the courtesan that everyone certainly desires in the bed but that few would deserve to bring - with the pride that she deserves - at their side, shows the stigmata of that human, moral and intellectual greatness, the prerogative of those who have known put Love before everything and everyone. And the story of himself and of the other flows. Of a woman proud of her sensuality, of her predisposition to give pleasure while taking pleasure, and above all of a woman who knows well what men need to improve their mental and physical well-being. In everything she writes and expresses in this sublime book which had such success in its first edition, BlueAngy must therefore be read with that "voracious attention of the soul" which brings the mind and spirit closer to the dimension of the Woman.

In a book the most famous escort in Italy, perfect lover and perhaps a brand The life of a luxury escort, her contradictions, reflections and her professional and sexual experiences around the world full immersion in the international jet set: these are the themes and motifs that make an autobiographical book from a few years ago published by Einaudi still relevant: "How to do good to men, life and advice of a perfect courtesan", author BlueAngy. Even if the topic is what you can imagine and the events are set among mannered alcoves and intimate nudity, the writing has style, class and depth and there is nothing prurient, dirty or vulgar in the entire narrative. The author fluently talks about herself, from when she was a child in Hungary, already beautiful at that time, to when she began to excel without rivals in the oldest profession in the world among billionaires of every kind who inexorably go haywire as soon as her "dance" begins. of the serpent”, or “of the devil”, and from whom he habitually conquers the wallet and even the credit card by their free will. In less than 150 pages, serious and discreet, there are crude and carnal scenes, sometimes even comical, and characters who at the cost of thousands of euros for a single encounter or "service" believe they are buying like a bar of soap or any other object in for sale the blue angel, the blue-eyed Italian-Hungarian blonde with the cobra-like gaze who hypnotizes and leads every wealthy customer (or the worker who has collected the money month after month) to realize the secret dream of his intimacy. The array of characters is impressive, starting with the parish priest, at the time of Catholic childhood, who rummages, with his sinful hands full of perverse lust, under the underwear of the then innocent little girl instead of entering into ecstasy and prayer in front of the infantile beauty, an earthly and tangible sign of the greatness and divine beauty transfused on a child's face. When she grows up, the author will find herself in contact with another prelate who will pay her handsomely in a famous Milanese nightclub and "come", as usually happened to him, in the middle of the audience and in his trousers with deafening music in the background. A small detail: the 2 million lire of the "benefit" (currently 1000 euros, to be revalued, ed.) had been collected in the parish for charitable works. The rest of the human sample of VIPs passing through the sheets of BlueAngy are personalities from politics, entertainment, sport, the world of industry and services. Rendered camouflaged, unrecognizable by the writer. Is there also the environment of the now "historic" bunga-bunga? Whoever reads will see. However, there are many billionaires in dollars or euros: Americans, Arabs, Europeans and of course Italians, all owners of personal planes, yachts equipped with helicopters, hundreds of luxurious cars of all colours, endless villas and farms with parks, swimming pools, heliports, countless outbuildings and so on. All in transit or sedentary for a certain period in the blonde Author's bed. There are also two husbands, married clumsily due to weakness or by mistake, who abuse alcohol, drugs, and she who invariably receives bruises and blows which are followed by separations and divorces. In short, “How to do good to men” is not a boring read. Despite everything, BlueAngy seeks Love, the important one; it is his dream, his daily thought. But she knows that in the golden cage she has built to save herself from the violence of the street and the world there cannot be what she lacks and needs. What advice do you give women to make men happy? What advice do you give men to help them understand the key to their happiness-unhappiness? The author of this book also tries to answer these questions from her angle of observation and in the light of her life experience which, rather than closing, opens a debate on ever-alive and current topics which concern, without hypocrisy, none other than the oldest problem in the world: that of happiness.

The autobiography of BlueAngy, the stage name of a Hungarian professional escort (but resident in Italy for years), differs in the delicacy of the language and in the broader and more varied perspective than the average. Like many of these books, "How to do good to men", a misleading title from a Kama Sutra manual, is a sort of intimate diary written in the first person, which claims to tell without hesitation the world of luxury prostitution and its clients ; but unlike usual, the concessions to the prurient and/or morbid are reduced to a minimum, the erotic fantasies of the men known by the entreneuse barely mentioned, the "dirty words" reserved just for the mischievous angelic demonic incipit. So what is "How to do good to men" about? Mainly about us, about our society. In fact, it is no coincidence that one of the recurring figures in the book is that of the mirror, a revealing act not only of looking at oneself, but of the reflection that immerses us in everyday reality: and so while the protagonist recalls her difficult childhood, her love failures, a perhaps compromised relationship with his daughter, portraits of men and women emerge in which it is easy, however bitter, to recognize vices and defects of human nature, with which we reluctantly would like to identify. Of course we men, alas, don't make a good impression on ourselves, petty, narcissistic, vain, violent, insecure, fundamentally foolish. Yet it cannot be said that it is a book against male nature, on the contrary, despite everything, an unassailable love emerges from the author for these miserable and somewhat pathetic creatures, with the firmness and determination to finally find among them, the longed-for true love with which to build a family. But if the men emerge with broken bones, the female figures are certainly no better, from the mother described as cold and indifferent, to the clients' wives, who out of opportunism, despite knowing their husbands' betrayals, pretend nothing happened, passing as the showgirls and the starlets, who want to meet powerful men who can facilitate their career in the world of entertainment, ending with the escort colleagues, incapable of abandoning themselves to love and willing to give up their career only in front of well-off and wealthy men who they can keep them. In short, the many stories told and experienced firsthand would be fertile ground for making a compelling television series; not only that, for sure, with the next book, there are already other stories to tell and represent.

'Oh... l'Amour'!. No surprise in discovering that SHE too, the 'Teacher', the 'Coach', pleasantly entrusts her body and soul to the warm and fluctuating waves of passion and feeling that moves and determines everything in our lives. She, who has always worked hard to make "men feel good" (oops!... isn't this perhaps a reference to her first, successful book?) and always She, who at the same time works hard to make people understand not only to Men but also to Women the importance (and we are already at its second ...) of physical and psychological "Sex as Liberation", and also to you, who by her nature and also due to the inevitable cruel realities of life has chosen the difficult role of the courtesan, speaks of the great and irrepressible strength of Love. Of the Divinity which, by its meaning "priestess of living in harmony", confesses to always guarding and safeguarding. And so it is that the finally rediscovered Love (the intense and reciprocated one for her Patrick) represents the underlying theme of this third novel of life, around which other themes also develop. There is the return of philosophical concepts such as polyamory. And then the new elements: the discovery of virtual sex in the midst of the corona virus pandemic, and that of the sublime pleasure that can also come from lesbian relationships. This time the reader will find himself faced with a narrative that is certainly faster than the previous two, but no less interesting from the point of view of the psychological introspection of all the actors called by the Author to interpret their roles on the stage of Life.

“I finished the book! And I loved it. It was very engaging and I couldn't put it down! It was similar to your last few books, but equally insightful, and I really liked that this one was even more autobiographical about your recent life and filled in the gaps to the questions I asked myself while reading your last two books. I learned so much through your pages, but I still had some unanswered questions (for example, about your daughter and also your opinions on love and even sex with other sex etc.) but this book fills in those blanks so well. It is also brilliantly written and brings the reader closer to you as a woman, writer and lover! I learned so much about myself and it is very rare that you find me so d I agree with an author. At times I felt like you took my thoughts/points of view and put them on a page in an intelligent, coherent and concise way.... well done! I think it's a book for all ages, but I find that as I get older and know myself better, your books resonate more and more with me. To conclude, can I just thank you for sharing your beautiful mind and soul with me, it was a pleasure to read such a wonderful piece of literature. A thousand thanks! I would also add that writing three books is incredible and something you probably didn't imagine as a 17-year-old girl and maybe you got everything you wanted, but I feel like you're still missing something in your book...".

I read your book in one go, then reread the salient parts. It's well written, it's a quick and gripping read. Certainly also because I was interested in getting to know your person intimately, in perceiving every nuance of your story. And so I found answers to some situations that had raised questions in me at the time. Well, I'm happy for you and that you're living your love story, I confess that I'm also envious: I too hoped to experience sex with all the love of my soul, with my heart and head. I'm a little dazed, your words swirl in my head, a thousand questions arise... But I've always known that your femininity is an exquisitely tuned harmonic instrument, with a thousand sounds and a thousand colors. There is nothing to be done, women in any case dominate us in the many aspects of everyday life, they have a sensitivity elevated to the nth degree, we men chase with difficulty...